Once in a while I get comments from people that tell me that they experience a lack of acceptance when it comes to fashion. Standing out from the crowd is never easy, I have often experienced this myself. I grew up in a very small place and my interest in fashion wasn’t always conceived in good ways. The most silly rumors went around only cause I never wore the typical “uniform” that consisted mostly of sports wear. When I moved to Oslo I thought all of this would change, but it didn’t. I’m not as visible here so it helps, but still I experience all kinds of consumptions. From girls who look at me with the evil eye because I like to dress up, to men that think girls that are interested in fashion are stupid and shallow, to different groups of people that never see me as one of them because I change my style all the time to any person that stares on the street…
I am not really trying to stand out in any way. I think because of my experiences while growing up fashion has become a way of expressing my self and my moods. Sometimes I’m feeling silly and then I’ll wear a stupid outfit, then I’m feeling happy and I’ll dress up or I’m feeling depressed and I might choose something safe to protect my self. I don’t really get why it should be a big deal to some people. All in all it’s just clothes. If everybody looked the same this world would be a boring place to be.
I get easily bored with things and then I have to try something new. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. You’ve all been witnessing my ups and downs the past few months. While I thought it was scary at first, it has made me stronger. I don’t let negative comments get to me anymore. I dare more than I used to when it comes to trying new things. I feel more secure in my own style. I’ve kind of come to the conclusion that I can’t care about what people on the street think about what I’m wearing. It’s my life and I love fashion.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on these things.